{"id":90715,"date":"2026-02-24T01:41:51","date_gmt":"2026-02-23T14:41:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/?p=90715"},"modified":"2026-03-05T08:01:44","modified_gmt":"2026-03-04T21:01:44","slug":"midlife-female-friendship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/midlife-female-friendship\/","title":{"rendered":"A tale of midlife female friendship along the Cape to Cape Track"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Tackling Western Australia\u2019s long-distance coastal trail with her fellow 50-year-old friend allowed Dana Ronan time to pause, reconnect and find quiet.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s a yoga saying: I practice three times a week for my body, and every day for my mind.<br>My version of that is: In my 40s, I walked for my body. In my 50s, I walk for my mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s how I found myself on the edge of the Indian Ocean with one of my friends, Jen, walking the 125-kilometre <a href=\"\/australia\/hike-western-australias-cape-cape-track-167623\">Cape to Cape Track<\/a> in Western Australia \u2013 a hike she quietly had to Google before the trip because she didn\u2019t know where it was. It says a lot about our friendship that she said yes anyway, because she trusted me. And because she knew she needed this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Life was unravelling a little. It had been a big year for us both: a joyful wedding (hers) and the kind of midlife whiplash \u2013 grief over loss, busy work, family commitments \u2013 that\u2019s leaving so many of our 50-year-old friends brittle and too exhausted to know what they need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My criteria for choosing a walking companion were simple: Who needed it? Who was fit enough? Who would I still love (and love me) at the end of seven days together?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Having forged an 11-year-long friendship over work, kids and life, Jen was top of the list. So, we began \u2013 two frazzled 50-something women stepping into one of <a href=\"\/australia\">Australia<\/a>\u2019s most iconic coastal trails, setting off not to achieve anything extraordinary, but to unwind, before we unravelled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-jetpack-tiled-gallery alignwide is-style-rectangular\"><div class=\"\"><div class=\"tiled-gallery__gallery\"><div class=\"tiled-gallery__row\"><div class=\"tiled-gallery__col\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33333%\"><figure class=\"tiled-gallery__item\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-2-1.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=600&#038;ssl=1 600w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-2-1.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=900&#038;ssl=1 900w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-2-1.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=1080&#038;ssl=1 1080w\" alt=\"Natural scenery on the Cape to Cape Track, Australia.\" data-height=\"1920\" data-id=\"90775\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/?attachment_id=90775\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-2-1.jpg\" data-width=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-2-1.jpg?ssl=1\" data-amp-layout=\"responsive\" aria-label=\"Open image 1 of 3 in full-screen\"\/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"tiled-gallery__col\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33333%\"><figure class=\"tiled-gallery__item\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=600&#038;ssl=1 600w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=900&#038;ssl=1 900w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=1080&#038;ssl=1 1080w\" alt=\"Walking beside the coast on Cape to Cape Track, Australia.\" data-height=\"1920\" data-id=\"90776\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/?attachment_id=90776\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image.jpg\" data-width=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image.jpg?ssl=1\" data-amp-layout=\"responsive\" aria-label=\"Open image 2 of 3 in full-screen\"\/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"tiled-gallery__col\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33333%\"><figure class=\"tiled-gallery__item\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-6.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=600&#038;ssl=1 600w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-6.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=900&#038;ssl=1 900w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-6.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=1080&#038;ssl=1 1080w\" alt=\"Dramatic coastal views on the Cape to Cape Track, Australia.\" data-height=\"1920\" data-id=\"90774\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/?attachment_id=90774\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-6.jpg\" data-width=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-6.jpg?ssl=1\" data-amp-layout=\"responsive\" aria-label=\"Open image 3 of 3 in full-screen\"\/><\/figure><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The way women walk<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve walked for much of my adult life, covering many of the country&#8217;s best multi-day guided hikes, so I understood how movement is tied to mood and mind, and knew that walking is the most honest way to know yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I forget, but I always come back. One foot in front of the other. Breathe in, breathe out. It\u2019s not about the destination. It\u2019s about rhythm. The slow unclenching of thoughts. The steady companionship of your own breath.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In my 30s and 40s, I chose a trail for its name and prestige. The ego and bragging rights. Now, I choose trails because they ask the right questions. Because they give enough silence and space for the truth to surface.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Cape to Cape is perfect for that: rugged limestone cliffs, pale beaches that stretch into eternity, wildflowers dancing in the wind, and forests of peppermint bush and karri trees that hush you into reverence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a track known for its diversity \u2013 snaking between the lighthouse-topped coastal headlands of Cape Naturaliste and Cape Leeuwin. One hour you\u2019re climbing vertiginous clifftops overlooking the meeting point between the Indian and Southern Oceans; the next, you\u2019re tracing a trail through the sand between the low and high tide marks, or entering a hedge of heath, so dense the swirl of the sea becomes a whisper you can hear but no longer see. Along the way, following the coast of the Margaret River region, there\u2019s always the possibility of spying dolphins, seabirds and even whales in season from May to late November.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I came into this walk with my own quiet goals: to slow down, to clear out the noise of a long year and to connect with myself again in the steady repetition of the trail. Walking always gives me that: the conscious return to your own inner tempo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jen, an endurance runner who has previously done a New York marathon, was a first-time group traveller, who came into the trip with no expectations \u2013 often the best way to arrive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Read more: <a href=\"\/adventures\/things-you-should-know-before-hiking-the-larapinta-trail\/\">Things you should know before hiking the Larapinta Trail<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-jetpack-tiled-gallery alignwide is-style-rectangular\"><div class=\"\"><div class=\"tiled-gallery__gallery\"><div class=\"tiled-gallery__row\"><div class=\"tiled-gallery__col\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33333%\"><figure class=\"tiled-gallery__item\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-1.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=600&#038;ssl=1 600w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-1.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=900&#038;ssl=1 900w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-1.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=1080&#038;ssl=1 1080w\" alt=\"Taking in the coast on the the Cape to Cape Track, Australia.\" data-height=\"1920\" data-id=\"90778\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/?attachment_id=90778\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-1.jpg\" data-width=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-1.jpg?ssl=1\" data-amp-layout=\"responsive\" aria-label=\"Open image 1 of 3 in full-screen\"\/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"tiled-gallery__col\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33333%\"><figure class=\"tiled-gallery__item\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3825-1.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=600&#038;ssl=1 600w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3825-1.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=900&#038;ssl=1 900w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3825-1.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=1080&#038;ssl=1 1080w\" alt=\"Dana Ronan and her friend Jen on the Cape to Cape Track, Western Australia.\" data-height=\"1920\" data-id=\"90722\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/?attachment_id=90722\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3825-1.jpg\" data-width=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3825-1.jpg?ssl=1\" data-amp-layout=\"responsive\" aria-label=\"Open image 2 of 3 in full-screen\"\/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"tiled-gallery__col\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33333%\"><figure class=\"tiled-gallery__item\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3991.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=600&#038;ssl=1 600w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3991.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=900&#038;ssl=1 900w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3991.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=1080&#038;ssl=1 1080w\" alt=\"Hiking on beaches on the Cape to Cape Track, Australia.\" data-height=\"1920\" data-id=\"90780\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/?attachment_id=90780\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3991.jpg\" data-width=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3991.jpg?ssl=1\" data-amp-layout=\"responsive\" aria-label=\"Open image 3 of 3 in full-screen\"\/><\/figure><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Finding our rhythm<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"\/walking\">Walking with Intrepid<\/a>, our group of strangers quickly became companions \u2013 present, supportive, but never intrusive. Because Intrepid handled all the hotels, meals, transfers, safety and guiding, all we had to carry was our daypack, water and unfolding thoughts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first afternoon was breezy and bright, the ocean steady at our right shoulder. We\u2019d flown to Perth the night before. Jen was quiet. I was too. Not from discomfort, but from the simple fact that our lives leading in had been loud. Stepping onto the trail felt like turning down the volume.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By the second day, the rhythm had found us. Our pace became our own. Our breath softened. We talked in pockets, but we also walked in silence \u2013 the comfortable kind you only have with someone you\u2019ve lived alongside for a while.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I learn so much from other people when I walk, especially the people I know well but rarely get uninterrupted time with. We revelled in the intellectual chats, philosophical discussions and future talk for ourselves, our lives and our kids.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the long beach stretches, where sand pulls at your calves and the sun shows you what you\u2019re made of, Jen found a part of herself she hadn\u2019t met in a while. At one point, she stopped walking, took a breath and said gently: \u2018Thank you for bringing me. This might be what I didn\u2019t know I needed. I had to do something different. No app, grounding mat, breath class or gym regime was helping me unwind.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The quietness of coming back to nature felt wonderfully right in an instant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Read more: <a href=\"\/adventures\/the-goods-new-australia-new-zealand-trips\/\">Ways to salute the outdoors in Australia<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-jetpack-tiled-gallery alignwide is-style-rectangular\"><div class=\"\"><div class=\"tiled-gallery__gallery\"><div class=\"tiled-gallery__row\"><div class=\"tiled-gallery__col\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33333%\"><figure class=\"tiled-gallery__item\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4061.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=600&#038;ssl=1 600w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4061.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=900&#038;ssl=1 900w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4061.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=1080&#038;ssl=1 1080w\" alt=\"Connecting with nature on the Cape to Cape Track, Western Australia.\" data-height=\"1920\" data-id=\"90728\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/?attachment_id=90728\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4061.jpg\" data-width=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4061.jpg?ssl=1\" data-amp-layout=\"responsive\" aria-label=\"Open image 1 of 3 in full-screen\"\/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"tiled-gallery__col\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33333%\"><figure class=\"tiled-gallery__item\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-4.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=600&#038;ssl=1 600w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-4.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=900&#038;ssl=1 900w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-4.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=1080&#038;ssl=1 1080w\" alt=\"Rocky clusters on the Cape to Cape Track, Australia.\" data-height=\"1920\" data-id=\"90781\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/?attachment_id=90781\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-4.jpg\" data-width=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/straightened-image-4.jpg?ssl=1\" data-amp-layout=\"responsive\" aria-label=\"Open image 2 of 3 in full-screen\"\/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"tiled-gallery__col\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33333%\"><figure class=\"tiled-gallery__item\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3847-2.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=600&#038;ssl=1 600w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3847-2.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=900&#038;ssl=1 900w,https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3847-2.jpg?strip=info&#038;w=1080&#038;ssl=1 1080w\" alt=\"Native plants and flowers along the Cape to Cape Track, Western Australia.\" data-height=\"1920\" data-id=\"90742\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/?attachment_id=90742\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3847-2.jpg\" data-width=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_3847-2.jpg?ssl=1\" data-amp-layout=\"responsive\" aria-label=\"Open image 3 of 3 in full-screen\"\/><\/figure><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Moments you can\u2019t plan for<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Every walk has a moment \u2013 the one you\u2019ll tell later, the one that unlocks the trip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ours happened on a dune climb off windswept Moses Beach midway through the week. The ocean was wild, wind squalling and whipping up in gusts. The group ahead of us had disappeared over a dune. It was just us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Somewhere between exhaustion and exhilaration, Jen started laughing and pointed to a coastal rosemary bush. Its leggy new growth went still for a moment before the wind would whip its arms into a frenzy like a mosh pit at Glastonbury. \u2018Oh look. It\u2019s going crazy for us!\u2019 she said, waving her arms and giggling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was a dance-like-no-one-is-watching moment \u2013 except I was watching, and there was such trust there in being allowed to witness the silliness, free from responsibility and anything being asked of us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Walking does that. It frees something. The wildness of the coastline invites your own wildness to come out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Later that night back at our apartment in Margaret River, she said quietly, \u2018I didn\u2019t realise how wound up I was until I started to unwind.\u2019 That was her moment of triumph \u2013 not only finishing the trail, but finding her inner quiet again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Read more: <a href=\"\/adventures\/what-not-to-do-at-uluru\/\">How to travel respectfully to Uluru and other sacred sites<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignwide size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4125-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-90734\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4125-1.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4125-1-425x239.jpg 425w, https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4125-1-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4125-1-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4125-1-1170x658.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_4125-1-585x329.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Hiking along the beaches of Western Australia&#8217;s Cape to Cape Track<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The unexpected softness of paying attention<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Throughout the week we didn\u2019t check the news. We didn\u2019t scroll. We didn\u2019t keep up with the headlines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, we crouched down to photograph small mauve flowers hidden on the edge of the trail, delighting in being in our bodies, in our breath, beside the ocean, present. And we snuck in a side trip to the Leeuwin Estate winery and their private art gallery after one of the shorter days, because fine wine and Australian art are, like us, the perfect pairing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By the time we reached the final stretch toward Cape Leeuwin, we weren\u2019t triumphant in the Everest sense of the word. We weren\u2019t transformed in the cinematic sense. But we were softer, warmer, more ourselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Looking out towards the two oceans meeting, Jen said, \u2018I didn\u2019t think unwinding could feel this gentle.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the gift of walking. Not the summit. Not the finish line. Not the map. But the moment you breathe deeply again. And put one foot in front of the other, step after step, 220,000 times in a week, as it turned out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I achieved my own goals: to slow down, to listen, to reconnect with myself and my friend. To walk and surrender my mind a little. Jen, of course, came with none \u2013 other than making the time to do it \u2013 and left with more than she expected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We both arrived a little frazzled; we finished unwound. 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