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I am an introvert.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No one believes me when I say this because apparently introverts are supposed to be shy, awkward around people and potential serial killers. I am none\u2026wait\u2026no\u2026I am none of these things.<\/p>\n

People, however, make me tired. Getting to know people and suffering through the initial trappings of \u2018small talk\u2019 often sees me avoiding new situations or standing in front of a mirror saying, \u201cYou can do this Carla!\u201d \u2013 like I\u2019m going in to battle. I\u2019m best around people I already know. Probably because I like the deeper part of people more than the surface.<\/p>\n

So, when I found myself in Cape Town, at the welcome meeting for Intrepid’s Cape Town to Zanzibar<\/a><\/strong> tour, I thought, \u201cKill me now.\u201d I was sitting in a room full of the total strangers that I was going to be trapped on an overland truck with for 40 days and 40 nights\u2026it filled me with biblical levels of angst.<\/p>\n

You would think I would be used to this by now. I have always travelled alone \u2013 34 countries so far.<\/p>\n

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Exploring La Paz, Bolivia solo<\/p><\/div>\n

Travelling solo didn\u2019t start as a choice. I tried, numerous times, to inspire friends or family to come with me on one of my journeys. And, although there were some that were almost at the tipping point, no one took me up on my offer. The reason is simple \u2013 I like to go where people don\u2019t usually go. My first trip ever was to Cold War Russia. I\u2019ve been to Syria five times. Slogged it up the Inca Trail<\/a><\/strong>. Slept rough in a Bedouin village in Jordan. Apparently, none of these things seem like \u2018vacations\u2019 to my nearest and dearest.<\/p>\n

MORE FROM THIS WRITER: THE ROAD TO MACHU PICCHU STARTS AT 385 LBS<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

I still go.<\/p>\n

Alone.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not actually hard to travel by myself, in many ways it\u2019s easier. And, if I had to wait for someone to go with me, I would have never made it to the first country, let alone the 34th<\/sup>.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s okay though.<\/p>\n

Because I learned a few things along the way, about myself, and about the world, that has made me enjoy travelling solo. Top of the list is, I like hanging out with myself.<\/p>\n

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With the Intrepid truck in Southern Africa<\/p><\/div>\n

CHECK OUT INTREPID’S RANGE OF TOURS FOR SOLO TRAVELLERS<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

I have discovered that I am always, without fail, more myself<\/em> when I am travelling. If I had someone with me, watching, I probably would never \u2018let myself go\u2019 as freely as when there are no witnesses. Travel can be hard and often not pretty. Sometimes you have to crumble. Sometimes you don\u2019t want your friends posting that on Facebook. Sometimes the only person that needs to know something\u2026is you.<\/p>\n

I also know that the world is just about always safe for solo travellers. When you are on your own, you become a curiosity to locals and are more likely to have truly significant interactions with them because of it. My most vibrant travel memories have been at the hands of locals, whether it was climbing through the abandoned cave cities of Cappadocia or drinking too much Palinka with a toothless Romanian gypsy. People helping me, just because they could, has restored my faith in humanity more than once!<\/p>\n

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Meeting a Herero woman in Namibia<\/p><\/div>\n

On my return from Africa<\/a><\/strong>, someone asked me, \u201cWere the people scary?\u201d I laughed, \u201cUm, yeah, at one point I thought I was going to suffocate from too many hugs.\u201d (I\u2019m lookin\u2019 at you Malawi).<\/p>\n

Lions are scary! But people? Nah.<\/p>\n

I have faith that I will be okay while traipsing across the planet because arbitrary lines drawn in the sand may make a country, but people are people, no matter which border they sit behind.<\/p>\n

I have also found a new tribe of travellers. They are out there, floating around the planet, with the same beating heart as me. These people are easiest to find the more I stray from the well-worn path.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t mind the hard edges of a country, if those hard edges are inherent. I don\u2019t think that I should necessarily have it better than the locals when I\u2019m travelling through their world. I like to feel how people live, as close to their reality as I can. So do others.<\/p>\n

CHECK OUT THE SOUTHERN AFRICA TOUR THIS TRAVELLER VENTURED ON<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

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Too tall for the homestay in Peru’s Lake Titicaca!<\/p><\/div>\n

As I was sitting on our truck rambling towards Namibia, I found myself sitting across the aisle from Rob. It was day 2, otherwise known as \u2018still in small talk hell\u2019.<\/p>\n

\u201cSoooo, you\u2019re from where again?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cEng-a-land,\u201d he said, stressing every syllable like he was teaching me the word.<\/p>\n

*sigh*<\/p>\n

I hate small talk.<\/p>\n

Apparently, so did Rob.<\/p>\n

So we skipped that, and went straight to the deeper stuff, and in the process, I realized I had found Traveller #1. Yes!<\/p>\n

And there were more. Our diverse (read: wacky) group consisted of 20 people, ages 18 to 82, from 7 different countries. 12 of us were solo.<\/p>\n

MORE FROM THIS WRITER: WHAT IT’S REALLY LIKE TOURING BOLIVIA WITH INTREPID<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

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My amazing Intrepid group in Namibia<\/p><\/div>\n

We camped where lions roam, among the bugs and snakes, at the edge of crocodile waters. We slept on top of the rocks at Spitzkoppe and walked into the emptiness of the desert under starry skies. We sang Africa<\/em> by Toto at least 200 times. We made meals together, we helped each other. We teased and poked and joked. We dared and encouraged. We shared our Pringles and chocolate and Imodium. We talked about our families, our lives, our childhood, our parents, our fears.<\/p>\n

We became a family.<\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t the first time this has happened. 14 years ago, I overlanded from Istanbul to Cairo where I met Jeremy, who is still in my life. In 2016, I went with Intrepid to Bolivia<\/a> <\/strong>where I met Paul and Cassie. They are trying to figure out how to get their newborn baby on a plane for a visit. I\u2019m pretty sure, at some point, someone from this Africa tour is going to come live in my attic.<\/p>\n

Back home in Canada, people have asked me what my favourite part of the trip was. I have answered, unwaveringly, \u201cThe people I travelled with.\u201d<\/p>\n

Life is too precious to wait for someone else to join your <\/em>adventure.<\/p>\n

Just go.<\/p>\n

Inspired to take off on your very own solo adventure? Check out Intrepid’s range of group tours just for solo travellers.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

—<\/p>\n

(Image credits: first five c\/o Carla Powell. Group shot c\/o Danielle Harvey.)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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