{"id":16182,"date":"2016-04-27T14:56:29","date_gmt":"2016-04-27T04:56:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures?p=16182&preview_id=16182"},"modified":"2022-01-24T22:32:14","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T11:32:14","slug":"travel-connections","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intrepidtravel.com\/adventures\/travel-connections\/","title":{"rendered":"Connections on the road: why travel friends make the best friends"},"content":{"rendered":"

When I was 23, I travelled to Whistler to work and ski during the winter months.<\/p>\n

I arrived knowing just one other person. Desperate to find work, I trekked out on my first day there to hand out CVs to hotels and restaurants of which I had printed onto brightly coloured Mexican paper. At the Holiday Inn, an Australian girl with a beaming smile, said \u201cOoh, can you please hand in the yellow CV, that\u2019s my favorite colour\u201d and from that moment, I knew we would be the closest of friends.<\/p>\n

The next day I saw her stride past in the brightest yellow ski pants I had ever seen, the next week, we started working together, a couple of months later, we became room mates and then we travelled in a rusty van right across Canada to Prince Edward Island, because like all kindred spirits, she understood the need for my pilgrimage to the land of Anne of Green Gables. We shared a lot of our travel itineraries and remain close friends to this day.<\/p>\n

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Connections can strike in an instant or trickle in gradually, they can be immediately palpable and endlessly lingering. They can happen for a moment or span a lifetime. At no other time has my ability to connect with people, places and the world been more obvious than during my travels.<\/p>\n

World travel is a beautiful manifestation of human thought processes and a huge relief to the every day, at home, brain travel. Physically experiencing new places, the road under the feet, contrasting environments and heightened sensory engagements spark a clarity that allows a deeper sense of self, the surrounding landscape and the seemingly magical chance to align with people serendipitously.<\/p>\n

So much is documented about \u201clove at first sight\u201d encounters between males and females and happily ever-afters, but the most amazing connections during my travelling adventures have been with kindred spirits. And yes, it is most often love at first sight, a twinkle of eye contact, a first bedazzling smile, that incredible feeling of having known someone forever when you have only known them for hours.<\/p>\n

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In September my partner and I will be taking our sons to Zambia for a reunion with two of the friends I made when living in Kenya as a young 5 year-old girl. A few years ago we spent a Christmas in Kenya with my friend Susanna who was one of my besties during my time there, and despite having never met, my sons immediately connected with her, just as I did all those years ago.<\/p>\n

When my parents lived in Mexico during my twenties, I went over to learn some Spanish and experience life in a small village. A few weeks after I had arrived, the fax machine whirred into life (always a hugely exciting event) and it was from Susanna whom I hadn\u2019t seen since I was seven. She wanted to come and stay for a few weeks in-between courses at Uni. Living in the UK at the time, when she was due to arrive, I ran into the airport to greet her, thinking \u201cWhat if we don\u2019t like each other any more? It is 16 years since we\u2019ve spent any time together! What if we\u2019ve got nothing in common?\u201d But my fears were dispelled the moment we came face to face and both announced at once \u201cYou look exactly the same!\u201d This was such a successful reunion that a few weeks became two months and then I joined her to live in Edinburgh for another adventurous chapter. Later this year, I\u2019m going to see her again.<\/p>\n